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Post by LazyL on Dec 23, 2003 3:51:07 GMT -5
allright, i have a girlfriend that trips about absolutley everything... she hasnt always been like this... i dont know what to do... we have been together for 1year and 3 months... for example, we were at this bar tonight, she came a little bit later with her friends... well when they got to the club, i said hi, talked with her and her firneds and spent the rest of the night with them... now, its 2:40 am where i am right now, and she just finished getting mad at me for not saying hello nice enough to her today!!! but she acted fine all night... i dont understand and i thought mabeye someone else would... the people on this forum seem to have good advice, so i am asking sincerely.... thank you..
-ben..
p.s. i know this is a tq message forum, but i figured we could mix it up a little, this seemed to be the forum, the least directed towards tq, which is why i posted it here.. if anyone knows anything bout girls, please help me out!
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Post by TKay on Dec 23, 2003 4:59:46 GMT -5
Mhhh sounds like a shizophrenic girl. Well OK perhaps I can help U a lil bit but I think U know that I´m not a girl  U shouldn´t think that Ur gf is trippin at U all the time cause Ur doin everything wrong. Perhaps she´s unhappy with something different. (Perhaps with her parents situation, friends, skool etc.) But she doesn´t know what to do, she´s tryin to handle with this situation by her own and so she´s gettin mad from time to time. The eaysiest way to find out what´s wrong with her, is to ask her. So when she´s trippin at U again, ask her what´s wrong with her feelings etc. But perhaps I´m totally wrong, I don´t know perhaps somebody else here can help U better. |
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Post by bigPoppaH on Dec 23, 2003 6:20:11 GMT -5
from a guy's point of view, here's what i think...
she thinks too much of herself. In my experience she needs reminding how lucky she is to have you....don't get in touch with her for a while (when i say "a while", a mean a little longer than you usually don't in touch for). This will get her worried and she'll start thinking about you, and then she'll get in touch with you. Then she'll start appreciating you more.....works every time!
This is just my opinion, and it's worked for me before
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Post by charell on Dec 23, 2003 6:34:22 GMT -5
I think that the best thing to do is what tkay said.
just talk to her and ask her what wrong but don't get mad at her, because if you 2 are already together for 1 year and 3 months and she wasn't always like that she probably got a big problem. so just talk to her and I'm sure that she will tell you what the problem is.
good luck!
kiss charell
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Post by TKay on Dec 23, 2003 12:07:13 GMT -5
from a guy's point of view, here's what i think... she thinks too much of herself. In my experience she needs reminding how lucky she is to have you....don't get in touch with her for a while (when i say "a while", a mean a little longer than you usually don't in touch for). This will get her worried and she'll start thinking about you, and then she'll get in touch with you. Then she'll start appreciating you more.....works every time! This is just my opinion, and it's worked for me before I don´t think that´s a good Idea. Perhaps the girl´ll misundertand that... and when a girl misunderstands something U should watch Ur a$s, cause U´ll get a phat a$skick... |
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Post by Maudizzle on Dec 23, 2003 12:10:20 GMT -5
Why don't you just tell her what bothers you?  |
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Post by TQlovababy on Dec 23, 2003 12:39:45 GMT -5
Maybe she thought you was trying to diss her by saying "Hi" in a certain way....but maybe she is just trippin. If she was just trippn, you should ask her why she is. I know girls very well LOL since I am one. They sometimes are jealous, and insecure. Maybe you should let her know you really care bout her but she needs to stop trippin. Peace.
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Post by Maudizzle on Dec 23, 2003 12:43:47 GMT -5
Maybe she thought you was trying to diss her by saying "Hi" in a certain way....but maybe she is just trippin. If she was just trippn, you should ask her why she is. I know girls very well LOL since I am one. They sometimes are jealous, and insecure. Maybe you should let her know you really care bout her but she needs to stop trippin. Peace. I think she's just a little paranoid  |
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Post by tqfan on Dec 23, 2003 17:54:33 GMT -5
i can see why she waited until later on to get mad at you.
she wouldn't have wanted to make a scene in front of everyone, especially her friends.
maybe she should have got mad at you when you said it, in front of her friends, cos then her friends would have told her how ridiculous she was being...
however, i have no idea why she got mad, just cos you didn't say hi nice enough.
maybe next time you greet her, kiss her cheek or something, that's NICE, and it'll show you care and aren't afraid to show it in public.
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Post by TKay on Dec 23, 2003 18:01:33 GMT -5
i can see why she waited until later on to get mad at you. she wouldn't have wanted to make a scene in front of everyone, especially her friends. maybe she should have got mad at you when you said it, in front of her friends, cos then her friends would have told her how ridiculous she was being... however, i have no idea why she got mad, just cos you didn't say hi nice enough. maybe next time you greet her, kiss her cheek or something, that's NICE, and it'll show you care and aren't afraid to show it in public. LOL A girl knows what a girl wants...  |
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Post by tqfan on Dec 23, 2003 19:47:01 GMT -5
LOL A girl knows what a girl wants... so true! ;D |
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Post by LazyL on Dec 24, 2003 13:12:00 GMT -5
I asked for help from the ladies... but i didnt even have to wait for a lady... TKAY my man, you were right on player.... it wasnt really me makin her mad at all.... She was all upset (her own reasons) when she got there, so when my HI wasnt nice enough she took it all personaly.. I just had a talk with her, she apologized for trippin on me cause she was in a bad mood allready... thats funny man, you called that sh!t... you called it well....
if i ever got more probs, ya'll really tried to help... Thanks..
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Post by TKay on Dec 24, 2003 15:26:00 GMT -5
Ah man was my pleasure. I hope U and Ur gf are doin better now.  Merry Xmas |
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